Loving Mirrors

Noah St. John: The Secret Code of Success.

Noah St. John in his bestselling book:

The Secret Code of Success[1]http://www.amazon.com/The-Secret-Code-Success-Happiness/dp/0061715743 

observes that it is not possible for one person to become a great and successful leader all by himself.

He quotes J. Krishnamurti

Relationship is a mirror in which you can see yourself, not as you would wish to be, but as you are.
(p.75) He goes on to add,
Trying to succeed without the support of others is like standing on a gold mine digging away with a teaspoon.

Loving mirrors are people who unreservedly commit themselves to support us so that we can become both faithful and successful leaders.  

He outlines seven key support questions:
» 1. What does unconditional support mean to me?
» 2. What support do I need most in my life right now? In my business or ministry?
» 3. Who would I like to give me that support?
» 4. What’s in for them to support me? (List benefits per individual)
» 5. What would I like to hear from key people in my life?
» 6. If there were just one thing I would ask of them, what would it be?
» 7. What ACTIONS am I willing to take to get the support I need?
Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it.

Approaching your Loving Mirrors or those who profit from being mentored. Tell them of important they are and how much you value their input in your life and work.

1. What do you get out of me being in your life?

2. What have you gained from our relationship? Please be specific.

3. What would be missing if I weren’t in your life?

4. What do you see as my strengths?

5. What can I do differently to improve our relationship?

6. If there were one word or phrase you’d use to describe our relationship, what should it be?

7. On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate our relationship?

Noah St John p. 99

Jack Canfield Chicken Soup for My Soul.

Jack Canfield popular co-author of Chicken Soup for My Soul series.

Jack Canfield (born August 19, 1944 is an American author and motivational speaker. He is the co-author of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, which has more than 250 titles and 500 million copies in print in over 40 languages. In 2005 Canfield co-authored The Success Principles.[2]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_Canfield


Keep in mind that part of growing up is dealing with difficult issues, and the benefit can be great if you have the courage to ask for help. Human beings are not designed to go through life alone. No one has to bear the burdens of tough times all by themselves.


1 http://www.amazon.com/The-Secret-Code-Success-Happiness/dp/0061715743
2 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jack_Canfield

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